Definition:

Divorcing parents with children do not always agree on the best form of custody and visitation of their children. When they can not agree, they may petition the court to order an outside, objective psychologist to provide a child custody evaluation. This evaluation is designed to assess the best interests of the children based upon Illinois law.

The evaluation consists of clinical interviews and psychological testing of all immediate household members. In addition, observations are made of each parent's interaction with each child and telephone interviews are conducted with other significant parties, such as therapists, doctors, teachers, and day care providers.

Once completed, a report is written that summarizes all of the collected information, provides conclusions as outlined in Part IV Child Custody of the Illinois Marriage and Dissolution Act, and offers recommendations for custody, visitation, and treatment of any identified psychological or family related problems.

Symptoms:

Ongoing, unresolved, and conflicted positions on the best interests of the children as these relate to child custody and visitation with each parent.

You are unable to reach agreement with your children's other parent on a suitable co-parenting plan, visitation schedule, and the form of legal custody of the children, it is time to consider a child custody evaluation.

Treatment Options:

Before choosing a child custody evaluation, it is first advisable to fully consider the individual needs of your children, their relationship with each of their parent's lifestyles and the preferred custody and visitation arrangement that would best meet everyone's needs. If you still differ in your opinions, it may be helpful to consult a family mediator who can facilitate your communication and decision making toward the goal of developing a workable co-parenting plan.

Links:

• APA Child Custody

Suggested Readings:

• Mom's House, Dad's House: Making Two Homes for Your Child by Isolina Ricci
• Helping Your Kids Cope with Divorce the Sandcastles Way by M. Gary Neuman